Get Back Together With Your Ex-Girlfriend By Being Less Reachable And Even More Of A Challenge

You were a challenge for her. You had a superior appeal and she had been irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I'm about to make a wild guess here, and yet is it that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that at this time, you might be absolutely no challenge for her? And that she knows if she wanted to, at any moment she could easily get you back again and wrapped around her finger just by saying the word?

I am going to be a bit crude here, however as you know, to become a challenge once again you must show to your ex lover that her sexuality has no control over you any more. Take into account what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which think of exactly what it's like when you keep doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You will be suggesting to the woman that you're a low-value guy with no other sexual alternatives.

Your lover won't respect you again until you refuse her sexual influence over you. Luckily you're doing that now by not directly interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

Be sure to stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Don't be "friends" with her, because that rewards your ex with the ongoing validation of power over you while giving her a handy justification to stay split up. (She reasons that she's letting you down easy this way, assuaging virtually any guilt she may feel.)

On the other hand, you should definitely keep her locked in with your stuff. Probably lots of your belongings are at her residence, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She may request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like all of it back.

The very best response to this is simply "No, not yet. The rationale is because her holding onto your things (and you possessing hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.

For the up coming three weeks, you need to fully acknowledge -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you're an independent man now. Take what occurred with your ex-lover and learn from it. You have a great opportunity to revolutionize your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.

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