Getting Physical With A Woman

When we are referring to topics such as "relating to women", or "how to relate to women" or "Are you able to relate to women?", I usually get asked regarding how to begin getting physical with a girl that you have known as a pal for some time.

Getting physical is something that generally occurs naturally between a man and a woman more than a three month period unless of course either of them is really uncomfortable on disinterested.

When a man is not comfortable with approaching a girl for a physical relationship, the main thing that a guy can do to deal with that is discover ways to observe and make use of gradients.

Exactly what are gradients? Gradients are just like steps on a ladder which you climb to get to the top. Some guys might try to go to the top level of the ladder without ascending any of the steps. And that makes the girl uneasy and also the guy.

A man who is not comfortable in this area should learn both how to identify gradients when women use them and the way to make use of gradients on girls.

Not all women will begin at the same gradient. A few women will start with a kiss after a first date, and proceed gradually or swiftly from there - from kissing, to making out, to petting, to heavy petting and ultimately to sexual relations. If a man attempts to leap to the "sexual relations" step without going through the other gradients, he may just lose the girl. On the other hand, you can lose a girl as you are moving up the gradients too slowly.

Now other women won't even be up to the gradient of giving you a goodnight kiss till the seventh date. Gradients for her could be: getting to know you, speaking about sexual subjects indirectly (for instance commiserating regarding an ex-boyfriend), accidental touch (bumping into you as you stroll), purposeful little touches to your arm or leg, holding onto your arm as you go walking, holding your hand, and a goodnight kiss.

If you are not comfortable with this area and wish to get physical with a girl, flirt with her, romance her, notice where she is on the gradients of sexual contact, then take her up the gradients gently. As long as you don't by pass a lot of gradients, if she is interested, she will move up the gradients swiftly or gradually depending on her persona.

If she is not interested, she probably won't move up. Try lowering the gradient and if she still doesn't move up, try speaking about it. Ask her if she is interested in a relationship with you or if she only wants to be friends.

Don't forget that most women won't go out on a "date" with you unless of course they are already vaguely fine with the idea of getting physical with you. Thus you might like to make clear if you are dating or just "hanging out."

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